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#FringeFemmes 2026: Meet Kathy Westfield

By Constance Jaquay Strickland

Conversations with some of #HFF26’s compelling “Women on the Fringe”

Ten years ago, I did my first Fringe Femme interview out of a desperate need to hear and uplift the voices of women of color during Fringe. I also selfishly wanted to bear witness and, in some small way, archive the multiplicity of voices and conversations women of color were having.

The reality was, I was having a hard time discovering and seeing the work of women of color. I knew I had a small network, no connections, and yet I still found a way. I knew that the hardest part of manifesting a new work was finding a way to let people know you have a show happening.

The 2026 Hollywood Fringe Femme Interview series is an ode to the women who find a way to tell stories by any means necessary. And this Fringe Femme is truly a miracle – I do not say that frivolously. In the United States, nearly 1 in 3 women have experienced a form of physical violence by an intimate partner. Nearly 75% of all domestic homicide and severe violent crime victims of domestic abuse are women.

Currently here in California, the Hope Transitional Shelter houses more than three dozen women and children who are facing a high risk of losing services that support families experiencing domestic violence. As a child who witnessed my mother escape domestic violence, I know how urgent and vital services are for families to get back on their feet but also how it transforms an entire family when women have the ability, support and forums to share their stories of survival.

This is why it is not only emotional, but truly a blessing to introduce Fringe Femme Kathy Westfield and “He Put His Hands On Me.” May each time she shares her story, it saves another woman’s life. May each time she shares her story, it transforms the lens via how women are viewed. May each time she shares her story, it opens a portal of courage and healing for all the women who are on the brink of leaving a violent partner.

Kathy Westfield

Constance Jaquay Strickland: How long have you been sitting with this work and what led you to the Hollywood Fringe?

Kathy Westfield: I initially wrote “He Put His Hands On Me” in 2018. In searching for a platform for my show, I came across the Hollywood Fringe Festival. It immediately caught my attention because it provided an opportunity without creative limits, was part of the performing arts community and it also gave me the freedom to produce my own show. So, in October 2019 and then in January 2020, I produced my show in preparation for the June 2020 Hollywood Fringe Festival.  However, in February 2020, COVID hit. [And the 2020 Hollywood Fringe was cancelled.]

Constance: So why now?

Kathy: Because it was time to just do it! I could not forget how the audience at my last show came onstage, surrounded me and asked, “When is your next show?” They maintained a strong position stating, “You have to do it again. People need to hear your story.”

Constance: Were there joy and surprises that you discovered when creating your show?

Kathy: There was joy in realizing my show could possibly help someone who is currently being abused.  It then was no longer just about writing my story.  It now had a much bigger purpose. True joy came in knowing that I am fortunate to be alive.  I can now share my journey to enlighten, inform and to encourage others.

Constance: What was your biggest challenge in terms of the Fringe and your development process?

Kathy: As the artist as well as the producer, it was challenging handling all the duties, i.e., securing the venue, production and promotions, as well as other performance related duties. I stayed busy from the inception, through the rewrites and all the way through managing the tech rehearsals. One had to be organized in order to be successful.

Constance: What did you enjoy most about doing your show during the Fringe?

Kathy: I enjoyed being able to touch the hearts of the audience by using my sense of humor in an effort to lighten up some of the pretty dark times in my story. There were tears by those embracing my pain as well as tears of joy brought forth through my humor. The audience didn’t leave the show depressed and sad, but rather empowered and uplifted.

Constance: So is the show a love letter to survivors or a plea to the community and women still stuck in violent relationships?

Kathy: My show is to all of the above. For survivors, it’s a reminder about just how far they have come. It’s also an opportunity for the community to better understand the challenges facing most victims. And it is definitely an opportunity to provide information to victims presently in a violent relationship so they know help is available 24 hours a day at (800)799-7233(SAFE). 

Kathy Westfield in “He Put His Hands On Me”

Constance: Do you believe theatre is a bridge to healing and rebuilding?

Kathy: I most definitely believe theatre is a bridge to both healing and rebuilding. Experiencing the performance of someone who has overcome a hurdle can give another individual the hope and insight needed in overcoming their similar situation. It can also become a shared emotional journey for the audience as well as a pathway towards healing for the performer.

In fact, acting out my domestic violence experiences in my performances has allowed me the opportunity to process the pain, verbalize my emotions and release the shame many times felt by both victims and survivors.  It has helped me tremendously in my healing process.

 Constance: Silence often plays a huge part in how domestic violence continues. To stay silent is to hide the shame that may exist; it may also cost a woman her life. How did you navigate this when choosing to put your story onstage?

Kathy: Balancing the discovery of my voice and saving my own life had to be approached carefully. I had to come to the realization if I remained silent I could potentially die. Secondly, I had to make the decision not to embrace the shame because shame keeps us shackled.

In my first abusive relationship, I carefully planned an escape. I say carefully because this is the most dangerous time for a victim.  Statistics show 75% of deaths occur when the victim tries to leave their abuser.

Lastly, I learned to listen to my inner voice. One night during my abusive marriage my husband knocked me to the floor and started choking me. I couldn’t breathe but then I heard a voice say, “Bite him.” When I bit him, he released my neck. I then escaped by running down our apartment hallway screaming for help and a complete stranger opened her door, pulled me inside and then slammed the door behind me. I learned not to ignore that inner voice. It’s there for a reason.

Constance: Are you planning to continue performing “He Put His Hands On Me?” How do you see it living beyond Fringe?

Kathy: I definitely believe there is a need to continue. Audience members’ responses and reviews demonstrate it  has a purpose. With all the feedback I have received, I envision the show has the potential to be successfully produced at theatrical venues as well as through women’s organizations, churches, advocacy groups and universities for fundraisers, community awareness and educational purposes.

Constance: I love the double-entendre title of your solo show. It is very powerful. May I ask you to describe how your faith saw you through this painful season?

 Kathy: My faith evolved while I was deep into my abusive marriage. I was at my wit’s end. I finally got on my knees one night and turned my life over to God. I then began building a closer  relationship with Him. As I grew in my spiritual walk, so did my faith. On more than one occasion strangers were placed in my path and saved me from harm’s way. I do not believe their placement was coincidental but rather it was God’s divine intervention. Without faith, I’m convinced I would not be alive today. Men put their hands on me but God had his hands on me all along.

Constance: How are you doing now? How are you allowing love and laughter to stay active and alive?

Kathy: Currently, I continue to perform my clean, stand-up comedy. I share love through my humor in an effort to bring joy to my audiences. I am a firm believer that it may not be funny at the time, but eventually, we can find humor in just about any situation. Laughter has been a major source of my healing.

I am also actively researching plans to take my solo show on the road!

For info on “He Put His Hands On Me” at the 2026 Hollywood Fringe, visit https://www.hollywoodfringe.org/projects/13495

Go Here for More About Kathy Westfield

#FringeFemmes 2026: Meet Mozhdeh Rahmanzaei

By Constance Jaquay Strickland

Conversations with some of #HFF26’s compelling “Women on the Fringe”

Ten years ago, I conducted my first Fringe Femme interview out of a desperate need to hear and uplift the various works and voices of women of color during the Hollywood Fringe Festival. I selfishly wanted to bear witness, and in some small way, archive the multiplicity of beautiful conversations women of color were exploring. 

The reality was, I was having a hard time discovering and seeing the work of women of color. I knew I had a small network, no connections, and yet I still had found a way. Who else was out there existing as outliers? The hardest part of manifesting a new work is finding a way to let people know that you have a show. 

The 2026 Hollywood Fringe Femme Interview series is an ode to the women who find a way to tell their stories even when the odds are against them. Each year, a group of women dares to create work by any means necessary.

It is a pleasure to introduce Fringe Femme Mozhdeh Rahmanzaei. In a time when producing plays comes based on the season, Mozhdeh’s Freedom in Limbo is a stark reminder that writing plays comes at a high cost for many artists…

Oftentimes theatre does not exist on a schedule but is kept alive in the darkest of spaces, where light peaks through the hope and whispers of storytellers finding a way to tell the truth no matter the cost. That exile can be forced upon an individual, a choice to flee to survive or combat the practice being stifled, suffocated, or swallowed whole. No matter the why, exile separates and is traumatic physically and mentally. Yet for artists it also expands the how, and we find new ways to tell stories—innovation a natural response to a new environment. Have no confusion, though: exile is a collective issue and affects us all. 

I sit in the quiet of stillness in my little studio and speak aloud the names of artists, truthtellers on whose shoulders Mozhdeh stands: Wole Soyinka, Shirin Neshat, Elizabeth Catlett, Wilfredo Lam, Mona Hatoum, Isabel Allende, Emma Goldman, Assata Shakur, Dante Alighieri… this short list is long and continues growing and growing.

May Mozhdeh continue to be a link, a resource, a place of refuge + information while carrying, bearing and being the memory of home.

Mozhdeh Rahmanzaei

Constance Jaquay Strickland: How long have you been sitting with this work?

Mozhdeh Rahmanzaei: It has been quite a long process; this work started about 2 years ago, a few months before my graduation. It eventually became my thesis. Over time, I kept adding new material to the play, and it gradually grew from a 20-minute piece into a one-hour performance.

Constance: What led you to the Hollywood Fringe? Why now?

Mozhdeh
: When I decided to create this solo show, my intention was always to take it as far as possible and perform it in different cities. It started in Seattle, then moved to Portland and now Los Angeles. I wanted to understand different audiences and how they respond, and to keep building a dialogue through each place.

A key part of my motivation is to bring attention to the lived experience of artists in Iran. Many people, especially in the U.S., may have a general awareness that art in Iran exists under censorship and repression, but fewer people know the details of what that actually looks like on a daily, human level. As an artist, I feel a responsibility to bring those realities onto the stage.

I chose the Hollywood Fringe Festival because I believe stories from the Middle East are important here, and I want to introduce the Fringe audience to something that might feel different from what they usually see, something more personal, urgent, and grounded in lived experience.

Constance: Now, you’ve given the work away, and it’s out there. How does that feel?

Mozhdeh: It feels both freeing and vulnerable. I’ve given a very personal piece of myself to the world, and now it no longer fully belongs to me. But at the same time, that’s exactly what I wanted: to let it live outside of me and connect with people.

Constance: What’s been your biggest challenge in terms of the Fringe and your development process?

Mozhdeh: My biggest challenge has been wearing so many hats at the same time—I’ve been the producer, actor, writer, costume designer, and in many ways even the stage manager. Holding all of those roles simultaneously has been intense, but also deeply educational. Financially, it has also been challenging as someone who has recently graduated, but I’ve come to actually appreciate challenges. I believe they build resilience, and I feel like I’ve grown a lot stronger through this process.

Another challenge has been the distance in my collaboration with my director. We’ve been rehearsing over Zoom because he is in a different city while I’m based in Seattle, which has required a different kind of focus and discipline in the development process.

Constance: Can you speak a bit about the Underground Theatres of Iran? Is this where plays of banished playwrights still live? Where new stories are being told and archived with the body instead of the pen?

Mozhdeh: Underground theatre in Iran is similar to underground music. It is a space where artists spend years trying to obtain official permission to perform, and when they are unable to get approval, many eventually give up. In Iran, performances must be approved by the Department of Performing Arts to be staged. Without that permission, it is not possible to officially present a play. Some of my friends in Iran no longer even apply for permits to perform. One of them told me that they now stage their plays in their home garage and invite people there. It is a bit heartbreaking, but it is the reality.

Constance: Silence. To stay silent, you say, is the cost of no home. Eternally, I feel I understand that. Yet can you give insight into what that means or represents to you, Mozhdeh?

Mozhdeh: For me, silence is never just the absence of words—it is a condition of survival. It is what people are forced into when speaking becomes too dangerous, too costly, or simply unheard. In that sense, silence becomes both protection and imprisonment at the same time.
When I say that silence is the cost of having no home, I mean that in exile or displacement, you often learn that speaking freely can make you even more vulnerable, while silence allows you to endure. But endurance is not the same as freedom.

So silence represents a tension: it is the space where you stay alive, but also where parts of your truth remain unspoken. The work is my attempt to break that silence—not by erasing it, but by making it visible and shared.

Constance: In your play, you also speak Farsi.  I love that audiences have the chance to hear an ancient language onstage right in Hollywood. Is it difficult to write a multilingual play?

Mozhdeh: Yes, it wasn’t that difficult. Maybe it was challenging at first, but it became easier over time. In fact, I enjoy performing some of the lines in English. Acting in two languages has also helped me as an actor—it has made me more aware of how each language affects my body and presence on stage, and how switching between them changes the way I perform.

Constance: Also, what clues or revelations have you discovered about what it means to be seen or go unseen?

Mozhdeh: What I discovered is that being seen is not only about visibility on stage, but about being truly understood in your complexity as a human being. In this process, I realized that we are often most seen when there is genuine listening, presence, and openness from others. At the same time, being unseen is not always about physical absence—it can happen even in a crowd, when your inner world, your history or your truth is not acknowledged. This work taught me that theatre has the power to shift that experience, even briefly, by creating a space where someone’s silence, voice and presence can finally be witnessed.

Constance: What joy did you discover when creating your show?

Mozhdeh: Culture and art can act like a bridge between two different worlds and ways of thinking. One of the greatest joys I discovered while creating this show was learning how to build something together through two different languages and perspectives. My director and I come from different cultures and artistic approaches, and I realized how exciting and inspiring that difference can be. It became a space of exchange, discovery, and creative energy.

Constance: Did you face any obstacles?

Mozhdeh: One of the biggest obstacles for me in creating this play, and especially in performing it, was that I had to act out moments on stage that I had personally experienced years ago and that were part of my own life. But I did it because, in my view, the stage is a place where we must be honest and tell the truth about reality.

Constance: So what has it cost you (and ‘cost’ goes beyond money) to bring Freedom in Limbo to the Hollywood Fringe?

Mozhdeh: Bringing Freedom in Limbo to the Hollywood Fringe has cost me far more than money. It required months of work, emotional vulnerability, and the courage to revisit painful memories of exile and displacement. As an immigrant artist far from my family and homeland, every step of this process has demanded persistence, sacrifice, and faith in the importance of telling this story. Yet despite the cost, I believe these stories deserve to be heard.

Constance: After the lights and the audience disappear, what do you hope one remembers or takes away after seeing your show?

Mozhdeh: After the lights go out and the audience leaves, I hope they carry with them a sense of shared humanity. I want them to remember that behind every story of displacement or silence, there is a person who continues to dream, to question, and to survive. If anything remains, I hope it is a feeling—that even in moments of loss and uncertainty, connection is still possible, and voices that have been silenced still find a way to be heard.

Never give up. I kept going until it finally happened.

Constance: Is your play a love letter or a plea to Iran? Do you believe theatre is a bridge to healing and rebuilding?

Mozhdeh: I believe theatre can be a form of healing—I truly believe in it. And this is not a shout toward Iran, but a shout for Iran—perhaps one day, our voices and our demand for freedom will be heard.

Constance: Can one ever return home after exile?

Mozhdeh: Definitely no.

Constance: What is lost from exile? Not only for the individual or their family, but for Iran?

Mozhdeh: This work was shaped by both personal experience and witnessing the experiences of others. As an artist forced to leave my homeland, I have lived with displacement, uncertainty, and the feeling of being caught between two worlds. At the same time, I have witnessed the struggles of countless Iranians—artists, activists and ordinary people—whose voices have been silenced or suppressed. This piece grew out of both my own journey and the stories I carry with me from those who could not speak freely for themselves.

Constance: As an African-American woman whose ancestors were stolen from their home and tongue, I often think about the idea of home, memory, displacement, and what is left from that rupture. What have you learned about displacement and what ‘Home’ means?

Mozhdeh: To me, this separation carried a deeper meaning. It taught me that a country, a homeland, a land—at its core—means family. That is what I came to understand. Home means family, something I had never truly understood before. If I were to describe it, I would say that home is the place where you can walk freely and without fear, without constantly worrying that you might fall.

Constance: Can anywhere else ever replace ‘Home’?

Mozhdeh: No. A new place can offer safety, opportunities, and even happiness, but it can never fully replace home. Home is more than a place; it is the people, memories, and sense of belonging that stay with us wherever we go.

For info on Freedom in Limbo at the Hollywood Fringe, visit https://www.hollywoodfringe.org/projects/12444

Go Here for More About Mozhdeh Rahmanzaei

#FringeFemmes Check-Ins: Mr. Ow

by Constance Jaquay Strickland

Quick peeks at #HFF26’s “Women on the Fringe” by Fringe Femmes who are behind the scenes this year. Click Here for all Check-Ins

WHO:  Tozy

WHAT: Mr. Ow

WHERE: The Cats Crawl, 660 N Heliotrope Dr.

WHY: Wild! I loved this show and found Tozy to be a magnificent worm. This show truly pulls at your heartstrings in the sneakiest of ways. I thought I would enter the show, hide and view it from the stands – you know, a spectator of sorts. NO! Mr. Ow was not having it. He did not allow us to sit together in a shared space while still in individual isolation.

One by one, moment by moment – in the most poetic, profound of ways – Tozy brought us out of our shells and closer together. Midway through the show a young man walked onstage to become Tozy’s assistant and that whimsical action changed the course of the show. It became a beautiful thread that tied the entire show together… or perchance it revealed exactly who we can become as a society when we allow ourselves to connect. At first we may seem to be strangers, until we realize that we truly are interconnected and more similar than different.

Don’t miss this show.

HOW: https://www.hollywoodfringe.org/projects/13261

#FringeFemmes Check-Ins: Mammy is a Star

by Constance Jaquay Strickland

Quick peeks at #HFF26’s “Women on the Fringe” by Fringe Femmes who are behind the scenes this year. Click Here for all Check-Ins

WHO:  Dia Brown

WHAT: Mammy is a Star

WHERE: McCadden Theatre, 1157 N. McCadden Place

WHY: Mammy is a Star is a wonderful, lyrical tribute honoring the life and pioneering career of legend Hattie McDaniel. There is nothing like seeing a talented, beautiful, Black cast of actors onstage. There is nothing like seeing a large triple-threat ensemble onstage that is magnificently in step with one another, lightening up the stage.

What I loved about this show and the writing is the epicness, the sweeping timeline of it. It felt as though I had walked into the midst of a grand story and I was immediately invested. It is quite rare for Black artists to exist in plays that allow us to just live without having an immediate focus on our Blackness. It was a gift to be in the audience.

This play is about a family that has dreams in a time when they can boldly chase those dreams, but it is also a play about a girl refusing to be/do what is expected of her. A girl who creates her own narrative by standing by who she is, supported by her family.

I cannot wait to see how the work unfolds and manifests. We need new work that is original + expansive, and we need it right now from a wide variety of artists.

HOW: https://www.hollywoodfringe.org/projects/13702

#FringeFemmes Check-Ins: MIHO VS HATE

by Constance Jaquay Strickland

Quick peeks at #HFF26’s “Women on the Fringe” by Fringe Femmes who are behind the scenes this year. Click Here for all Check-Ins

WHO:  Miho Fuji

WHAT: MIHO VS HATE

WHERE: Stephanie Feury Studio Theatre, 5636 Melrose Ave

WHY: Miho! What a personality. Miho has that one-of-a-kind, contagious energy that makes you giddy and hyped. She has the natural ability to connect to the audience in a way that makes us all vulnerable and willing to follow her in any direction she wishes. Yet what stands out is her ability to let us in. To allow us to see that beyond the jokes, the arguments with a lamp (aka her father) and the silliness… there is depth.

This a show where a girl is dealing with the unconditional love she has for her father, while also holding a ton of grief for the emotional aftermath of that relationship. Their anger lingers from high expectations of what a woman – a Japanese woman – should look like, even how she should behave. Is this what makes up a woman’s worth? Who is she, if none of the expected is met? In the dark of theatre I observed Miho fight and wrestle off the residue that breeds, feeds inside the body, haunting our organs if we don’t brave the darkness… in order to allow ourselves to release old pains. Miho refuses to let the past hijack her future.

HOW: https://www.hollywoodfringe.org/projects/14226

#FringeFemmes Check-Ins: I. We. Us.

by Constance Jaquay Strickland

Quick peeks at #HFF26’s “Women on the Fringe” by Fringe Femmes who are behind the scenes this year. Click Here for all Check-Ins

WHO:  Melissa Rivera

WHAT: I. We. Us.

WHERE: Stephanie Feury Studio Theatre, 5636 Melrose Ave

WHY: This is a show not here to entertain you. It deals with a societal topic that’s usually discussed in the quiet. There is no way around it – we immediately enter a tough conversation about being the child of rape.

I. We. Us poses a difficult question about identity and how a family handles an unspeakable trauma that has for years disrupted the lives of everyone involved. How do you make the hardest choice of your life while hanging by a thread? This is a story about fighting to protect and heal yourself. Do you ever actually move through and forward from trauma? At what cost do we use our intellect to ignore our heart? Is it too late to come to the realization that the acto of moving on hurt those you left behind? This one-act play asks hard questions. There are no easy answers, but the play serves as a reminder that with love, empathy and understanding family can always come together to face the toughest of challenges.

HOW: https://www.hollywoodfringe.org/projects/13273

#FringeFemmes 2026: Meet Destiny Faith

By Constance Jaquay Strickland

Conversations with some of #HFF26’s compelling “Women on the Fringe”

Ten years ago, I conducted my first Fringe Femme interview out of a desperate need to hear and uplift the various works and voices of women of color during the Hollywood Fringe Festival. I selfishly wanted to bear witness and, in some small way, archive the multiplicity of beautiful voices and conversations women of color were exploring.

The reality was, I was having a hard time discovering and seeing the work of women of color. I knew I had a small network, no connections, and yet I still found a way. Who else was out there existing as outliers? The hardest part of manifesting a new work is finding a way to let people know that you have a show.

The 2026 Hollywood Fringe Femme Interview series is an ode to the women who find a way to tell their stories even when the odds are against them. Each year, a group of women dares to create work by any means necessary.

This year, I am beyond thrilled to introduce the first of this tiny but mighty cohort, Destiny Faith, actor + writer of The End of the World.

A solo show that is not afraid to address topics that are continually under-recognized, undiscussed or addressed without care, I was moved by the audacity and vulnerability Destiny brings to The End of the World… reminding us that our humanity, our capacity to hold emotions, feelings, fears and concerns are what makes up a healthy, forgiving and empathy-led community, society and culture. She reminds us that Black women are not monolithic, that we contain multitudes. She breaks stereotypes of staying silent and carrying the torch of Black women’s strength by boldly releasing, writing and sharing her perspective with the world. No longer allowing to go unseen.

Destiny Faith

Constance Jaquay Strickland: How long have you been sitting with this work? What led you to the Hollywood Fringe Festival and why now?

Destiny Faith: Hmm, this question is interesting for me because there are aspects of this work I’ve been sitting with for a long time. I’ve wanted to do a solo show for years, but had no idea what it would be about. The themes around mental health, existentialism and the loneliness of trying to connect in a disconnected world had been with me for a while, showing up again and again through different events in my life. A couple of years ago, I performed a seven-minute spoken-word piece at an open mic at Willie Agee Playhouse in Inglewood titled the Token Black Girl. It came out of a sudden awareness (almost a punch to the gut) of how subtle and constant the dehumanization of Black women is, and how little I’d actually let myself register it in my life.

That newfound awareness made me bitter and heartbroken, and I still haven’t fully gotten over it. After sharing that spoken-word piece and getting a strong response, people told me I should turn it into a one-woman show, and so I eventually did. Black women’s pain gets minimized so consistently that depression isn’t even on the table as a possibility for us. So I built a character who refuses that silence. She’s going to do the unthinkable, and she’s going to be loud about it. I wanted Hollywood Fringe first because it’s my backyard. I’ve been attending for years, and before I ran in Edinburgh, I wanted my own community’s eyes on it first.

Constance: Now, you’ve given the work away and it’s out there. How does that feel?

Destiny: It feels like it’s no longer just my own. I set out to tell my story, to be heard, to feel seen through art. And along the way, others have felt seen, too, and started sharing their own stories back. It’s humbling. It’s a reminder that whatever sits and persists in your heart isn’t just for you. It’s there, begging to be let out, because someone else needs it. That’s humbling, and it makes me want to make more.

Constance: What are you enjoying most as you create your show?

Destiny: I’m enjoying laughing and playing with the audience. I’m finally at a point where I feel more dropped into this role, into Desiree’s journey, which has let me really listen to and move with the audience. So every show has been different. I’m finally out of my head and can play.

Constance: What has been the most surprising discovery?

Destiny: I’ve been most surprised by how connected people are to little nuances in the story that I thought were so weird or so specific to me, that I almost didn’t put them in. I’m always shocked at how connected people feel to those exact moments.

Constance: What’s been your biggest challenge in terms of the Fringe?

Destiny: The biggest challenge, and I think a lot of other indie creators can relate to this, is having a vision much bigger than your pockets. I dream big, and I care so much about the integrity of the story, but you have such limited time and space to make everything the way you want it to be. I hated having to cut things that I felt would’ve made the show stronger, but cutting things has only made me get clearer and more specific about the experience I want my audience to have with the story.

Constance: What do you hope audience members take away from your show?

Destiny: I hope audiences get offline and look people in the eye. I’m begging us not to lose our humanity to social media and AI. It’s not real. These moments in the theater are real. The moments in nature, at the beach, are real. Everyone’s right and wrong about everything, but who we are as people extends beyond our 150-characters online. If we actually slowed down and sat with one another, and genuinely held space for one another, we’d feel less alone. (If we don’t learn to be human first, AI will do it for us…and take over our booooooddiiiiieeeeesssss :P)

Constance: How does spoken word help in telling the show’s story?

Destiny: I view spoken word in this show almost like a musical number. Sometimes we don’t have the perfect words to say, but a song always seems to do the trick. Music and rhythm can take something complex and full of nuance and help it land somewhere palatable, somewhere memorable. The spoken word isn’t just a peek into Desiree’s inner world; it also marks the significant milestones in her journey.

Constance: It’s not easy being a Black woman in any decade, but it sure is a privilege. How has letting go of the strong Black women trope freed you as an artist and woman?

Destiny: Such a good question, because I don’t know if I’ve fully let it go yet. But I’m learning to free myself more and more and allowing myself to be broken and vulnerable, imperfect. Allowing myself to not always work twice as hard, to not care about a trope that minimizes my humanity, just because I’m upset. The more I let go of caring how the world perceives me, the more I’m able to fully connect to myself. And connection to self gives us space for true healing. In this show, Desiree gets to be everything that Black women “shouldn’t be”: depressed, joyful, angry, scared, rude, bratty, funny, and hopeful. 

Constance: What joy did you discover when creating your show?

Destiny: The joy I discovered was getting to play and be funny. Most people see me do drama, and a lot of my life I’ve had to be serious and responsible—but I have a dry, goofy side that only a few people get to see. It’s great to expose that part of me in an environment that’s safe, that’s my own, and in my own voice. I don’t often see my type of humor represented in Black characters, so there’s real joy in getting to be what I don’t usually get to be or see.

Constance: What has it cost you to bring The End of the World to life?

Destiny: It has cost me so much sleep! Lol. 

Constance: What experience influenced this new work?

Destiny: This story is very personal to me. When I sat down to reflect on what my show should be about, I thought about major turning points in my life that I believe have contributed to who I am as a person. Two moments kept coming to mind in conjunction with each other, in parallel, even though they were fifteen years apart: the day my stepdad attempted suicide in front of my family and me, and one of the lowest moments of my adult life, during the lockdown in 2020.

I was fifteen when my stepdad attempted suicide, and that was the worst day of my life at the time. My family and I were never the same since. Everything I thought was true about the world, my life, and my parents was shattered. I have clear distinctions in who each of my siblings and my mom was before and after that moment. It was my own end of the world, so to speak. Everyone can relate to a moment in their life when their innocence was destroyed, when the world showed you its ugliest parts and broke your faith, when you no longer felt the illusion of safety. Trauma changes all of us, and it can be heartbreaking to recognize that in yourself. There are motifs in the show that allude to that feeling of loss of innocence.

Then in 2020, I had a second version of this. I was so brokenhearted by friends, family and humanity as a whole that it made me feel cold and bitter, and it took so much to get “me” back. But I’m grateful for experiencing both sides of the spectrum: such hope and faith in humanity, to such disdain for it and resentment toward God. The grace of God and the beauty in humanity have outweighed the bad in the end, and I can finally heal from that heartbreak. It’s an ongoing and ever-evolving process, which is what I hope also lands in the show.

For info and tickets visit https://www.hollywoodfringe.org/projects/13431

#FringeFemmes Check-Ins: They Tend To Themselves: A Choreopoem

by Constance Jaquay Strickland

Quick peeks at #HFF26’s “Women on the Fringe” by Fringe Femmes who are behind the scenes this year. Click Here for all Check-Ins

WHO:  Gabrielle Jackson

WHAT: They Tend To Themselves: A Choreopoem

WHERE: Los Angeles LGBT Center (Davidson / Valentini Theatre), 1125 North McCadden Place

WHY: Oh, what a mythical force. A Deity. A Priestess. 

They Tend to Themselves is a beautiful, poetic show rooted in the magic of Africa, the memory of our ancestors, and the enchanting power of Black women. Gabrielle is a familiar vision. Immediately, I feel as though I know her, have seen her before.

I fully understood, embraced with open arms, and possibly even evoked Gabrielle as one of my ancient ancestors channeled to remind my spirit to think beyond my physical essence. As she grabbed the hand of a Black woman and spoke truth through touch, she erased years of pain, opened a portal for healing and made way for enlightenment. 

Proud. Stunned. In awe. My solar plexus exploded each time Gabby’s voice reached back hundreds of years to bring us to this very moment in time, together.

My heart exploded during this show in the most affirming of ways. Not because I was a Black woman, but because it is a rare moment to witness the truth onstage. I was left Breathless. I left the theatre in tears but ready to not take on the world, but to tend to my spirit.

Words are not enough. Go see this show. Go support Black women telling stories.

HOW: https://www.hollywoodfringe.org/projects/9428

#FringeFemmes Check-Ins: Alpha Asian’s Guide to the American Dream

by Constance Jaquay Strickland

Quick peeks at #HFF26’s “Women on the Fringe” by Fringe Femmes who are behind the scenes this year. Click Here for all Check-Ins

WHO:  Elisha Tan

WHAT: Alpha Asian’s Guide to the American Dream

WHERE: The Activist Kitchen, 669 N. Heliotrope Dr

WHY: Elisha is a fearless comedian. She shoots onstage like a lightning bolt. An assassin never missing her target.

I love a joke that leaves you no choice but to get out of your comfort zone. The jokes were funny, absurd, even filled with clues on how we must continue to dream.  A one hour set filled with jokes not to be dismissed for they are tangible enough to allow us to hear the seriousness of her journey, while threading and connecting us to her. I learned to listen. I learned through humor that friction and funny go hand & hand. I learned that although Elisha experienced hard times, that tested her faith and she did not give up. This show is a story about empowerment and the strange turns life takes us on when we disrupt expectations or traditional routes.

HOW: https://www.hollywoodfringe.org/projects/14101

#FringeFemmes Check-Ins: Bellyful

by Constance Jaquay Strickland

Quick peeks at #HFF26’s “Women on the Fringe” by Fringe Femmes who are behind the scenes this year. Click Here for all Check-Ins

WHO:  Vivia E Armstrong

WHAT: Bellyful

WHERE: Hudson Theatres (Hudson Guild) 6539 Santa Monica Boulevard

WHY: What a revelation and truly special gift to witness Vivia onstage. She glows and embodies her story in a way that inspires, uplifts and leaves enough room for us to be in testimony not only with her, but also with ourselves.

Never an easy feat, a solo show, but she draws us in by opening our hearts to what we are often desensitized to in our daily lives: our humanity. Not everyone makes it through. Not everyone will have the courage nor support to make the attempt. Vivia, in the most magical of ways, shows us life is a Bellyful of risks that either lead us closer or further to who we truly are.

HOW: https://www.hollywoodfringe.org/projects/6668